The Adoption Process for Court Ordered Placements

If you are a custodian of a child under a court order, that is a serious responsibility. You should have, understand, and follow all current court orders regarding custody, visitation and support of the child. If the orders are no longer workable, you should consult an attorney about having them changed. Court orders don’t change unless someone, usually the custodian or birth parent, asks the court to consider a change.

When a court gives custody to a private individual or couple, the cases have a few things in common.

  • There is no DCS social worker to help the custodian or the birth parents or the child.
  • There is no DCS attorney to pursue termination of parental rights for the custodians if they want to adopt.  

If you want to adopt the child, you must hire a private attorney to:

  • assess the likelihood of a consent or a contest.
  • determine whether there are grounds to proceed if the birth parent won’t consent.
  • file a lawsuit against the birth parents on your behalf, assuming that you have grounds for termination of parental rights and want to proceed.  Then you must find the birth parents to serve with a copy of the lawsuit. 
  • gather the evidence to prove grounds as to each birth parent and to prove the best interest of the child.
  • present your evidence to a court.

This process can take from 3 months to 2-3 years.  The case can cost about $3000 to $30,000 or more in attorney fees.  The low end of the time and costs ranges are usually when the birth parents agree or are served and don’t show up for court.

This explains why some foster parent custodians don’t want DCS to give them custody and close the case. They would rather DCS stay in the case and take these legal steps for them. Adoption Assistance is often available when the child is adopted directly from the guardianship of DCS, but generally not available if DCS is not the guardian at the time of adoption. 

Most custodians don’t understand these financial implications when they take custody of a child. The result is a number of Tennessee families with custody of children whose support needs they were prepared for, but whose costs for legal permanence they did not expect.

But other custodians are so glad to have the state out of their family life that they are glad to control the case and cover the expenses themselves.

Court appointed custodians often find it useful to have a meeting with Dawn to better understand their legal positions and options. Whether or not the custodians decide to take immediate action, understanding the legal implications of the custodians and the birth parents’ decisions can reduce the custodian’s stress and help them plan.

Dawn is Ready to Help with Your Court-Ordered Placement

For over 30 years, Dawn has been an adoption and child-welfare advocate nationally and in Tennessee. She knows where the system is working and the many places that it is not. When she provides her frank assessment to policymakers, they listen.

If you are a Tennessee family beginning the adoption process or are otherwise in need of Tennessee legal services related to adoption: please contact Angela Cameron, paralegal, for information on scheduling an appointment or a telephone consultation.